Once you decide and embark on the entrepreneurial journey, you may face unique challenges that your friends and family may not fully understand.
I really want you to feel this in your gut, so… let me start. When things are difficult, nothing is right. Bear with me and allow me to sketch it: when things are great, everything is great, and everyone is excellent – you can live with not getting a thank you for just about anything. But, when the going gets tough, even the coffee is terrible, and we find that those thank you’s are a much-needed lifeblood.
And when that happens, we have to stay strong because people are watching. If we show any sign of weakness, we will be judged and may lose support. Sometimes, we have to make tough decisions for our businesses, which can lead to feelings of loneliness as there may be few others who share the same level of responsibility.
Especially during difficult times, when everyone else is relaxing or staying at home, we may find ourselves working long hours, sacrificing personal time, and missing out on social events. This can make us feel even more isolated. We may also feel overwhelmed when we realise that we may not be able to make it through the next month financially.
As a result, we may become preoccupied or absent, which can lead to feelings of guilt and make us feel like terrible parents. Our friends and family may encourage us to quit instead of offering helpful advice on how things can improve.
If you can relate to what I’m saying, then you know how difficult and unpleasant it can be. It’s either rock bottom or a critical shift, but either way, it’s not easy.
What to Do About It?
Actively seek out and cultivate relationships with fellow entrepreneurs. Attend local networking events, join industry-specific groups, and engage in online communities. Establishing a support network can provide a sense of camaraderie and understanding.
Connect with experienced entrepreneurs who can offer guidance and support. Mentorship programs, both formal and informal, can provide valuable insights, reduce the sense of isolation, and help you navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship.
Make a conscious effort to prioritize your mental and physical well-being. Regular exercise, sufficient sleep, and downtime are essential for maintaining a healthy balance.
This can help create a healthier work-life balance and alleviate feelings of loneliness.
Recognising and addressing the loneliness of entrepreneurship is crucial for personal well-being and business success. Remember, you are not alone in your journey, and by reaching out, you can find strength in unity.
